A satisfying and fulfilling male chastity lifestyle only happens when the woman decides to take complete control of the situation. The majority of men are simply not mentally tough enough to be given much authority when it comes to implementing and managing a relationship predicated on male chastity. The woman must step up in her highest heels ...
2021-09-14. By: Mrs. Lion. In: Punishment, Sex. With: 0 Comments. Lion is tied to the bed with nice decorations pinching his balls. Click image to view larger. Lion sent me an email this morning with the subject line “Tiesday September 14”. I saw Tiesday and figured it was a typo. “U” and “I” are next to each other on the keyboard.
This is an aggregate for blogs in which male chastity and orgasm denial are the main focus. These links will cover a range of interests, from vanilla teasing, to long-term denial, to CBT, to piercings.
The male chastity device market continues to boom as the interest in male chastity continues to grow. That’s especially true when it comes to new designs out of China. I continue seeing mass-produced devices on Twitter that are new to me. One of the relatively new devices I discovered recently, the Shackle Bird, is sold by LiuLinShop.
Sarah Jameson is the author of Stacy's Game, Monaco, and Tatiana, creator and host of The Male Chastity Blog, and real-life keyholder to her beloved husband John. ... she writes a mixture of male chastity fiction and non-fiction, with a deliberate eye for accuracy and realism, to keep it representative of what CAN happen for couples who enter into the male chastity lifestyle and take it seriously...
myboyinchastity's Blog Chastity for My Husband. Chastity Benefits in Quarantine April 26, 2021 myboyinchastity 3 Comments. ... Men seem to keep close track on such things. It was a three-day conference and I had one presentation to give and was in a number of professional meetings each day. I had my best business suits and shoes and it was nice ...
Loading Comments If evolution had programmed women to view and want sex the same as it has men, the world would be in utter chaos. This is an aggregate for blogs in which male chastity and orgasm denial are the main focus. There are also now many great books available on the topic of male chastity. I had a nice orgasm which helped me drift off to sleep for my nap. Because strict male chastity really can be yours… if you approach it in the r ight way. Other wives often comment on how polite and respectful he is toward me and others. I had my best business suits and shoes and it was nice to have William there to make sure that my shoes were polished and that my skirt and blouse were freshly pressed each morning. And On It Goes… - We have reached day He says that when he was first placed in chastity, whenever he became aroused, he immediately began to fantasize about the woman he was looking at. My nose was running, and I was sneezing. However, the base ring still rubs a lot, and causes me to take it off after days. He was tall, broad-shouldered and very muscular. Locking Device: Abus padlock or security screw. Muscles in the scrotum move the testicles closer or farther away from the body to keep the temperature optimum for sperm production and survival. When he was finished cleaning I told him, that because he had done such a good job, he could beg for a foot worship session. Sunday Vibes - Have you ever had the privilege of a cfnm party? We had a very nice dinner one night in the fancy restaurant at the hotel. When William is eight weeks or more in chastity, without a release, he approaches orally pleasuring me as if it is a religious experience for him. He never had a full-on orgasm so it turned out to be sort of a milking session and ruined orgasm. Chastity Lifestyle. Lion on each of those days. William says that it causes him to avoid situations where he is significantly aroused. He sighed a big sigh when I clicked the lock shut. The Glow Inside. He told me that he knew he would have to work on not becoming moody and withdrawn, and to maintain his attentiveness and obedience toward me. Quarter 2 Review Coming This April. I told her that all we needed were some fresh towels and the trash emptied. He whined a little and asked if he could stay out for a while. Here again, we find virtually endless possibilities for teasing that require no real time or effort on your part and no physical contact. He had long arms and was very strong and gave a very nice hug. That is easily accomplished with his cage locked on since his testicles are exposed and readily available for stimulation. Think about it. It has become very effective at silencing him. However, I did decide to stop. It felt quite nice. Passive Teasing. The cremaster muscle, a pelvic muscle found only in males, covers the testicles. What comes easily to mind, is you allowing your caged partner to give you oral sex. Within twenty-four hours for most us, our sexual response and desire begins to slowly return as our prostates refill. That look You can get three of the same type or mix and match. I told him I was feeling embarrassed and was not willing to wear some outlandish looking costume. I told him hands off and had him put his hands behind his head and went back to reading my book until his erection went down and we could get his cage back on. I had a presentation to prepare and I told him he needed to clean up the bathroom and toilet. When the male is cleverly denied by an understanding, capable and emotionally strong woman, the anticipation of sex will always be there for him.
One of the things involved in the care and feeding of the male in chastity is the requirement for you to devote time and effort to teasing your man regularly. Sexual teasing is a requisite for doing male chastity properly. The necessity of sexual teasing in male chastity and a few tips on how to do it is the topic of this post, the third in the series focused on male chastity from the the female perspective. If you missed the first two posts, you can find them here and here. But life is never simple. The same goes for male chastity. If it was, more women would probably feel less reluctant to try male chastity when their men nervously suggest adding it to the relationship mix. But as days stretch into weeks, the novelty of wearing a penis cage wears off. Chastity devices hold no inherent magic on their own. The magic comes in when a keyholder enforces chastity properly. Teasing is an essential part of that. A guy who is locked and forgotten soon becomes disenchanted with the whole idea of playing the chastity game. Unhappiness turns into dissatisfaction, then into feelings of resentment, and anger. Chastity is a huge mind fuck. The sexual frustration a chaste man feels is intense, so intense he experiences a euphoric high from the desperation and his lack of control. That is why a guy becomes super-focused on his partner and the extreme arousal coupled with sexual frustration is what makes the chastity game so much fun for guys to play. The more aroused a denied man stays, the more he likes it. Regular teasing is how you keep your man highly aroused and coming back for more. Regular and consistent teasing is how you keep him interested in the game and focused on you. As a result, your confidence soars as you experience the power of being truly in control of your man and both of your sex lives. That is how male chastity is supposed to work. To make chastity work for both of you, you cage your man. Your man becomes increasingly horny and needy. You tease your man, He becomes more horny and needy. He may even whine about how needy he feels and beg you to unlock him. Just keep teasing and let his brain continue to stew in those lovely endorphins and hormones that orgasm denial produces. The more he whines and begs, the more you tease him. Rinse and repeat for as long as you want him caged and want to reap the benefits of male chastity. Within reason of course. Then you lock him back up and the game begins anew. Sexual teasing as it relates to male chastity is nothing more than providing some sort of sexual stimulation without allowing a man to orgasm. Teasing can be either physical or non-physical. It can be active or passive. You can remove the cage for teasing or leave it on as it is all up to you as the keyholder. Through experimentation, you will soon learn how much teasing it takes to keep your man in that sweet spot of horniness and need. That may not be as much teasing as he wants, but will be as much as he needs to stay highly aroused. Never feel you must devote entire evenings or hours on weekends to teasing your chaste mate. Then you are the one who will tire of the chastity game. We might define active teasing as an activity where you must expend effort. Still, even active teasing may be physical or non-physical. That is easily accomplished with his cage locked on since his testicles are exposed and readily available for stimulation. Some chastity couples enjoy introducing pegging into their sexual relationship as a form of teasing. The key is not allowing him to orgasm. When you sense he is getting too excited, make him stop until he calms down. Continue with the start and stop, or simply lock him back up when you tire of it. Regardless of how you choose to do it. Active, non-physical teasing is as simple as you wearing as little as possible around the house when you and your partner are home alone.
So much so that I In other news, Mrs. I often showered right before bed so I could wank because it helped me sleep better and I knew better than to expect sex. But now he is mine beautiful and adoring husband who devotes all of his attention to me. Imagine that, and let it sink in for a moment. It seems constructed of quality plastic materials with tight tolerances. ID cage fits my penis like a glove with skin and steel touching all around. After a minute, he seemed to lose his erection. Recently, William found a play party that was in town a couple of hours from our home. Chastity devices hold no inherent magic on their own. Still, even active teasing may be physical or non-physical. Where John Ricke Writes. I mentioned a few times how locking up your husband will benefit you without offering any examples. Long Term Chastity. William was completely respectful and attentive to me and never allowed his eyes to wander. I missed having William there but I enjoyed the time with my sister. Teasing is the next topic we will visit in this series. I am grateful to her because I know that he is the wonderful, doting and adoring husband that he is, because of the way she raised him. When it happens, you must be firm. Even completing days would be a new personal best. And that's essentially what the Male Chastity Blog is all about. I am NOT ashamed of the blatant attempt at advertising here Diary of a Locked Boy. This gives me the opportunity to decide whether or not I feel comfortable leaving my car somewhere all night and having to send William back for it in the morning. This is how William explains that to me. I had a nice orgasm which helped me drift off to sleep for my nap. That means the easing into it period includes a wear schedule that allows a guy to acclimate to wearing a chastity device by gradually increasing the wear time from a few hours the first day to a few more hours to a full day to longer periods. Achieving permanent chastity may now be realistically within my grasp. There were a number of women dressed in some fairly extreme dominatrix outfits. It was a little less noticeable when I put on a pair of relaxed-fit jeans. The practice of controlling when a man gets to ejaculate. So I went looking for a good source of sane, sensible, and realistic information about it… … but I was horrified and almost put off the idea entirely by the huge mass of poor information available, nonsense ranging from the plain silly to the sinister and, in my opinion, potentially damaging and dangerous. Through passive, non-physical teasing, you get a lot of mileage with little or no real effort on your part that will keep your hubby or partner feeling horny and desperately needy. A lot of straight men had no pubic hair. William reached to slip off the underpantie from my nightgown and I raised up so that he could slip it off. Wearing a chastity device will make me more affectionate and loving and I'll desire you even more. It seems that a lot of people react strongly to this topic. Although men are experts at putting up a convincing front, they understand that women hold the real power. Failing to remind her earns a spanking. I got the key out of my makeup bag and unlocked the cage. Later when no one was using it, I lead William over to the spanking bench and ordered him to stand. Locks Keys. Drew a picture. I asked him what his expectations would be if I allowed him out of his chastity cage to have an orgasm. In: Living with chastity. How long should you keep your man locked up? They are usually physically stronger and many times earn more money than their female counterparts. A guy who is locked and forgotten soon becomes disenchanted with the whole idea of playing the chastity game. The Glow Inside. He worshipped there for a while and got me pretty turned on. A Different Flavour.
Wow, it has been a long time since I have posted. Things have been so busy for us. During the Covid pandemic I have been continuing to work outside the home, because I am considered an essential worker. William has been mostly able to work from home, with occasional trips to the office for face-to-face meetings. He has work assignments he must complete each week, and some of his meetings are conducted over Zoom. He has free time at different parts through the day and I leave chore lists of things I would like him to complete. Of course, maintaining him in chastity ensures that he is maintained in a properly obedient and attentive demeanor. I know that he would not be likely to accomplish as much as he does, both in terms of work, and household duties, if he was not in chastity. He would be slipping off to the bedroom several times a day to masturbate. He admits that he is more productive and says that he misses me throughout the day. I consider myself such a lucky career woman, to arrive home each evening, to be greeted by my adoring and dutiful house husband. Each afternoon, I text him directions on what I would like for dinner. He makes sure that he has the necessary ingredients, and a suitable wine to pair with dinner. When I arrive home each evening, he treats me lovingly at the door, takes my briefcase and purse from me, and helps me off with my suit jacket. There is always a delightful smell of the dinner he has cooked for us. I go to the couch and he brings me my glass of wine, and slips my shoes off for me. While I sip my wine, and watch the evening news, he kneels at my feet, and lovingly kisses and massages them. Then, we enjoy a nice dinner and wine, and tell each other about our day. Then we go to the bedroom, where he helps me and dress, remove my bra, and change into more comfortable lounging clothes for the evening. He carefully hangs up my suit in the section of the closet where he keeps things that he needs to deliver to the dry cleaners for me. He wipes down my shoes and puts them in the appropriate place in my closet. We then return to the living room where I read, or watch TV, as he cleans up the kitchen. Sometimes I will join him in the kitchen, to help him clean up so we can visit more and catch up on the day. In many ways we have a traditional s homelife, with me as the breadwinner, and him as the house husband. He often says that he models himself after June Cleaver and Donna Stone. I consider myself to be a lucky woman and I have advanced quite a bit in my career, thanks to this arrangement, and all of the support that my husband provides. He is a wonderful homemaker, and a very accomplished house husband. I have learned to not give him a release from chastity too often. Everytime, after he is allowed an orgasm, his service and attentiveness show a sharp decline. I have found that the optimum effect on his more positive demeanor, comes after at least two weeks in chastity, without any release. A month is wonderful, and eight weeks or more renders him the most delightful man a wife could imagine. When I feel the need for my own release, to relax, he is always eager to oblige, by pleasuring me orally. When William is eight weeks or more in chastity, without a release, he approaches orally pleasuring me as if it is a religious experience for him. I have come up with a delightful way to keep his interest and enthusiasm up. Each time, after I allow him one of those orgasms, that so sadly decrease his husbandly obedience, I let him know that I may decide to make that won his last ever. I love when I let him out of his chastity device and see him wrap his hand around his own penis the first time in many weeks. He is so sweet and cute. He gets a look on his face like a little boy who is touching his pee pee for the first time. I know you like that. You may want to take your time and make it last. Tomorrow you will be moody and less attentive to me. It will take me a week or two to get you back to the attentive and obedient husband that I need you to be. This could be your last time for weeks, for months, maybe for a year, or maybe forever. William usually comes very hard and very quickly when I do this. Each time I do this, the next morning, William will be incredibly snuggly, and sweet. This seems to have the effect of exerting more pressure on him to rally his mood and try harder even though his energy level has been decreased by his orgasm.